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The Terms of Discipleship

Published since 01. Jul. 2025
Bible passages:
Luke 14:26; 14:33; Matthew 16:24; John 8:31; 13:35

Luke 14:26: “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.”

Luke 14:33: “So likewise, whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple.”

Matthew 16:24: “Then Jesus said to His disciples, ‘If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.’”

John 8:31: “Then Jesus said to those Jews who believed Him, ‘If you abide in My word, you are My disciples indeed.’”

John 13:35: “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

True Christianity is a total commitment to the Lord Jesus Christ.

The Savior is not looking for men and women who will give Him their free evenings, their weekends or their years of retirement. Rather, He is looking for those who will give Him first place in their lives. He is looking today, as He has always looked, not for crowds drifting aimlessly in His path, but for individual men and women whose undying loyalty will spring from their recognition that He wants those who are willing to follow the path of self-renunciation that He has trodden before them.

Nothing less than unconditional surrender could ever be a fitting response to His sacrifice on Calvary. Love so amazing, so divine, could never be satisfied with anything less than our souls, our lives, our all.

The Lord Jesus made strict demands on those who would be His disciples – demands that are all but overlooked in this day of luxurious living. Too often we see Christianity as an escape from hell and a guarantee of heaven. Beyond that, we feel we have every right to enjoy the best this life has to offer. We know that there are these powerful verses about discipleship in the Bible, but we have trouble reconciling them with our ideas of what Christianity should be.

We can accept the fact that soldiers give their lives for patriotic reasons. We do not find it strange that communists give their lives for political reasons. But that "blood, sweat, and tears" should characterize the life of a follower of Christ seems somehow distant and hard to grasp.

And yet the words of the Lord Jesus are clear enough. There is little room for misunderstanding if we take them at face value. Here are the conditions of discipleship as laid down by the Savior of the world:

  1. A supreme love for Jesus Christ

"If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple" (Luke 14:26). This does not mean that we should ever have animosity or resentment in our hearts toward our relatives, but it does mean that our love for Christ should be so great that all other loves are hatred in comparison. Actually, the most difficult clause in this passage is the phrase, "yes, and his own life also”. Self-love is one of the most stubborn obstacles to discipleship. Only when we are willing to lay down our lives for Him are we where He wants us to be.´

  1. A denial of self

"If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself" (Matthew 16:24). Denying oneself is not the same as self-denial. The latter means giving up certain foods, pleasures, or possessions. But denial of self means such complete submission to the Lordship of Christ that self has no rights or authority whatsoever. It means that self abdicates the throne. It is expressed in the words of Henry Martyn: "Lord, let me have no will of my own, or look upon my true happiness as depending in the least degree upon anything that may happen to me outwardly, but as consisting wholly in conformity to Thy will.

  1. A conscious choice of the cross

"If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross… " (Matthew 16:24). The cross is not some physical infirmity or mental anguish; these things are common to all people. The cross is a way that is consciously chosen. It is a way that, as far as this world is concerned, is a way of shame and reproach. The cross symbolizes the shame, persecution, and abuse that the world heaped upon the Son of God and that the world will heap upon all who choose to stand against the tide. Any believer can avoid the cross by simply conforming to the world and its ways.

  1. A life spent following Christ

"If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me" (Matthew 16:24). To understand what this means, simply ask yourself, "What characterized the life of the Lord Jesus?" It was a life of obedience to the will of God. It was a life lived in the power of the Holy Spirit. It was a life of selfless service to others. It was a life of patience and longsuffering in the face of the greatest injustice. It was a life of zeal, sacrifice, self-control, gentleness, kindness, faithfulness, and dedication (Galatians 5:22, 23). To be His disciples, we must walk as He walked. We must display the fruit of Christlikeness (John 15:8).

  1. A fervent love for all who belong to Christ

"By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another" (John 13:35). This is the love that values others more than oneself. It is the love that suffers long and is kind. It does not boast or get puffed up. It does not behave unseemly, does not seek its own, is not easily provoked, and thinks no evil. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). Without this love, discipleship would be a cold, legalistic asceticism.

  1. An unwavering continuance in His Word

"If you abide in My word, you are My disciples indeed" (John 8:31). For true discipleship, there must be continuity. It is easy enough to start well, to burst forth in a blaze of glory. But the test of reality is perseverance to the end. Anyone who looks back after putting his hand to the plow is not fit for the kingdom of God (Luke 9:62). Spasmodic obedience to Scripture will not suffice. Christ wants those who will follow Him in constant, unquestioning obedience.

  1. A forsaking of all to follow Him.

"So likewise, whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple" (Luke 14:33). This may be the most unpopular of all Christ's discipleship conditions, and it may well turn out to be the most unpopular verse in the Bible. Clever theologians can give you a thousand reasons why it does not mean what it says, but simple disciples eagerly swallow it, assuming that the Lord Jesus knew what He was saying. What does it mean to leave everything? It means to give up all one's material possessions that are not absolutely necessary and that could be used to spread the gospel. The man who forsakes all does not become a lazy sluggard; he works hard to provide for the present needs of his family and himself. But because the passion of his life is to advance the cause of Christ, he invests everything above present needs in the work of the Lord, leaving the future to God. Seeking first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, he believes he will never lack food or clothing. He cannot conscientiously keep surplus funds when souls are perishing for lack of the gospel. He does not want to waste his life accumulating riches that will fall into the devil's hands when Christ returns for His saints. He wants to obey the Lord's command not to lay up treasure on earth. By giving up everything, he offers what he cannot keep anyway and what he has ceased to love.

These, then, are the seven conditions of Christian discipleship. They are clear and unambiguous. Confessing our past failures, let us boldly face the claims of Christ upon us and seek henceforth to be true disciples of our glorious Lord.

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